They know how to do a few things right, here. Like have a thunder and lightning storm. Two days ago the kids and I were out running a couple errands. We soon started to drive through some serious rain. We could hear a little thunder and see some lightning in the distance. But what continues to catch me off guard here is, where there is one storm there are often several others in the area or about to be. The first clap of thunder close to us made us all jump out of our seats. It took my brain a few long seconds to determine that the loud noise and cause of the car shaking was indeed thunder and we were not just hit by something. The storm was so bad by the time we got to the grocery store that the kids all had their hands over their ears. They were afraid to get out of the car. They were afraid to stay in the car. Ryland thought for sure the lightning was going to hit us. And his fears were not completely unfounded. Lightning hit the ground here just a couple weeks ago.
I looked around the parking lot and did an internal debate. We were out of a few critical items and needed to make a stop. Right or wrong, I took a cue from the locals who were still going and coming from the store, albeit quickly. I reassured the kids that we were going to be ok – it wouldn’t be as loud in the store. We made a run for it.
It was quieter in the store and electricity managed to stay on, despite several threats to cut out while we were there. The storm was still going pretty strong by the time we got back out, though it had moved out of our immediate area. Several traffic lights weren’t as lucky as those in the grocery store, but we got home safe and sound.
The tropical environment makes you pause in awe of nature between storms as well, even when you live here year round. Last Sunday evening Paul and I put the girls in the double chariot, Ryland on his bike and went for a run along the nearby coastal trail. At each picnic table there were locals (not many tourists in the wet season) eating with family and/or friends. There were kids playing on the grass and sand, adults sitting in camp chairs having a chilled glass of wine, and others just sitting on the grass with book in hand and camera at the ready. All were waiting for the approaching sunset.
As we ran along, taking in our surroundings, Paul and I looked at each other with understanding. These are a few of the reasons why we are here. To learn to stop and pause more often; to breathe the ocean air deep in our lungs and allow it to replenish our souls; to make more time to just have a picnic; to pause long enough to let the powerfulness of nature reach our conscious brains and to teach our kids to make this a way of life.
Friday, 16 December 2011
Thursday, 15 December 2011
December 16, 2011.......Running Bare (with clothes on)
I finally brought my barefoot running to a whole new level. It wasn’t preplanned or intentional. But I guess it was meant to happen.
It’s been about 2 years since I have run with typical running shoes and I have come to love the freedom of running with non-supportive shoes. It all started with my coach, Lisa Keller announcing that I just HAD to read the book "Born to Run" by Christopher McDougall. about two days after I started the book I was hooked. I now have a mix of shoes that I adorn when heading out for a trot, from Vibram Five Fingers to Zoot triathlon shoes (like pull-on slippers). I have also run without anything on my feet for short periods on the treadmill or around a track.
Lately I haven’t been running much at all and I was jonesing for one when I woke up this morning. Paul had to be at work early again so I decided that the kids and I would go on a little adventure of sorts. We figured out how to get the double chariot and Ryland’s bike in the car. We planned to drive up to this area we are interested in living, park, put the girls in the double chariot, Ryland on his bike and I would get in a little run as I pushed the chariot. Our objective was to run through part of the neighborhood to check it out and to end up on the coastal trail.
I made sure I had drinks and snacks for our 15 min car ride, cool water to pour over the our heads during the run, even colder water to drink, more snacks for the kids on our little adventure, sports drink for me, sunscreen, bike helmet, camera, sunglasses. Check. Check. Check.
We got to location, got everything out and put back together. Water over everyone’s head; water down everyone’s throat; sunscreen on all exposed parts; helmet on Ryland. Loaded up the chariot – kids, water, camera, snacks, sunscreen, phone. Ok! Lets to do this. Final check before locking the car…I look down at my feet. Flip flops. Uh Oh. Hmmmm. This might be a show stopper.
Well, let’s try it. We've invested too much to just put everthing and everyone back in the car and go home. First few steps…not too bad. Would actually be better if the flip flops were more mickey mouse. They are the moldable kind – you put them in the oven and then wear them to mold them to your feet. But I hadn’t done that yet. So they had more arch support than I wanted and were overall too cushy. No big deal unless you are running. And my stride was already messed up, trying to push a double chariot. I didn’t want an injury. Hmmmm. The trail looks pretty clean. Maybe I can just do it barefoot. The trail is concrete so maybe not too too hot yet. Let’s try it.
It worked out great for most of the way. The last little bit I had to put the flip flops back on because the trail along the coast is asphalt, which was way too hot without some sort of protection for my wimpy feet. All in all, it was a complete success! I might get a couple blisters, but we got the run in and had fun doing it. We got to the beach, had a little break, potty break, another little “shower” to cool down, warm drink (cold doesn’t last long here) and made it back without incident. Woohoo!! Celebrate the little victories!! Then, quickly back to A/C to cool down and rehydrate!
Friday, 9 December 2011
December 10, 2011....Bike riding in Darwin!!!!
Here are some photos of the kid's enjoying their bikes...so happy we were able to put them on the air shipment!
December 10, 2011.....Oh the weather outside is....HOT?...Chrissy Vacay?
My Christmas memories of sights, smells, etc. are stored on one side of my brain. Memories of tropical environments are stored on the other. They are trying very hard to link up...hasn't happened yet! We are trying...went for a drive after dark last night and saw some pretty cool displays of Christmas lights. There is Christmas spirit here, just WARMER spirit than we are accustomed. I saw a house last week that had some white fluffy material stragetically put around the yard to make it look like snow had gathered there. Cool idea! We're not alone! Our new friend Tracy, from Pennsylvania, was telling me that she cranks up the air conditioning in her apartment before she plays Christmas carols. Another great idea!
I can't believe there are only 2 weeks left before Christmas. Paul and I haven't bought a thing. I am refusing to get worked up about it this year. We will soon have to do a little SOMETHING, though. We do have 3 little kids. The kids and I have put up some Christmas decorations, including a little tree. We have also been playing Christmas carols. It's just funny to be driving around tropical land, signing songs of snow, cold and fireplaces.
The Christmas food and weather might be different here, but the general principals are still the same....getting together with family and good friends, eating a lot, giving presents and Santa Claus. We've been asking around, especially to the locals, to find out what Christmas looks like here and it's not that different. My hairdresser (who did an amazing job, BTW) was born and raised here. Her Christmas is a mix of local and German traditions because her boyfriend's family is from Germany. That is one thing that makes Darwin interesting - a wonderful mix of people.
In general, Darwin is a good amount of different...you don't have to worry about the water, lack of english speaking (although the accent is still difficult to understand), or the lack of western medicine. The sanitation standards are the same. There are similar holidays and traditions. But it is enough different to really broaden all of our horizons.
The language intrigues me. It's not just the accent, which I love. Its like everyone speaks like a teenager. But they ARE cool, not just trying to be. There is this "everyone is the same, its all good, mate" kind of atmosphere. My hairdresser this morning, said (on more than one occasion) "No drama" in place of saying something like "Cool". And its all the abbreviations. Our friend, Nancy (also from the US) got a message, "Going to Brissie for a Chrissy vacay." Indeed, the abbreviations are so common they have even made a grammer rule...
If the word is more than 2 syllables long, find a way to shorten it.
This is often done by taking the first syllable and adding an "o" at the end. You will even hear these words on the radio or see them on signs. "Aboriginals" becomes "Abos", “present” is “pressie”, “ambulance” is “ambo”, "Salvation Army" is "Salvos". More efficient? Depends if you are saying it or you've just arrived and are trying to understand someone else saying it. Either way, it's interesting for sure.
I can't believe there are only 2 weeks left before Christmas. Paul and I haven't bought a thing. I am refusing to get worked up about it this year. We will soon have to do a little SOMETHING, though. We do have 3 little kids. The kids and I have put up some Christmas decorations, including a little tree. We have also been playing Christmas carols. It's just funny to be driving around tropical land, signing songs of snow, cold and fireplaces.
The Christmas food and weather might be different here, but the general principals are still the same....getting together with family and good friends, eating a lot, giving presents and Santa Claus. We've been asking around, especially to the locals, to find out what Christmas looks like here and it's not that different. My hairdresser (who did an amazing job, BTW) was born and raised here. Her Christmas is a mix of local and German traditions because her boyfriend's family is from Germany. That is one thing that makes Darwin interesting - a wonderful mix of people.
In general, Darwin is a good amount of different...you don't have to worry about the water, lack of english speaking (although the accent is still difficult to understand), or the lack of western medicine. The sanitation standards are the same. There are similar holidays and traditions. But it is enough different to really broaden all of our horizons.
The language intrigues me. It's not just the accent, which I love. Its like everyone speaks like a teenager. But they ARE cool, not just trying to be. There is this "everyone is the same, its all good, mate" kind of atmosphere. My hairdresser this morning, said (on more than one occasion) "No drama" in place of saying something like "Cool". And its all the abbreviations. Our friend, Nancy (also from the US) got a message, "Going to Brissie for a Chrissy vacay." Indeed, the abbreviations are so common they have even made a grammer rule...
If the word is more than 2 syllables long, find a way to shorten it.
This is often done by taking the first syllable and adding an "o" at the end. You will even hear these words on the radio or see them on signs. "Aboriginals" becomes "Abos", “present” is “pressie”, “ambulance” is “ambo”, "Salvation Army" is "Salvos". More efficient? Depends if you are saying it or you've just arrived and are trying to understand someone else saying it. Either way, it's interesting for sure.
December 5, 2011......Kids Update
I wrote this last Monday and didn’t get it posted!!
We had a great weekend with the kids. Saturday was the ConocoPhillips Kid’s Christmas Party. It was fun. There was an inflatable water slide, kiddie pool and jumping castle outside the local rocking climbing facility. Inside, they had adults belaying the kids on the rock climbing walls and a large kid’s jungle gym. Add good food and Santa Claus to hand out gifts and you have a kid’s Christmas party. We even met some nice kids. It was HOT, though. We drank lots of water and after the party we had a nice dip in the pool at home.
Sunday was relaxing. Paul took the kids out to the pool while I got some work done. Early afternoon we went for a drive so the kids would nap. Sunday evening we went to a park with some new friends to see the annual Carols by Candlelight. We sat on a blanket on the grass, listening to choirs, soloists, and groups playing various musical instruments, all making beautiful Christmas songs. There were lots of people in a huge amphitheater. Of course Santa showed up on stage toward the end so sign along. Then we watched a fireworks show. It was probably the longest show I have ever seen. Pretty impressive. The kids really took to our new friend, Mr. Lincoln, who was born and raised in Africa and told the kids lots about it. Sounds like the property they grew up on had a massive grass yard, where he had a pet monkey and gazelles. Pretty cool.
It is difficult to get in the Christmas spirit with all the heat. This past weekend’s festivities definitely helped. In our air shipment, which should arrive today, we have a few Christmas decorations and a little artificial tree. Decorating with the kids will also help. We have been trying to figure out what new traditions we will have here and what old ones we want to keep. Most everyone does cold seafood for Christmas dinner here. We’ve thought about it, but it will be tough to go without the turkey! Maybe for New Year’s Day we will do a prawn dish.
There is a local competition for the best Christmas light display (winner gets $1000). On line you can look up who has entered the competition and where they live so you can go see them. That should be fun.
The kids are doing well. We’ve all had little bouts of stomach upset. Our systems are getting used to the local supply of bugs. The older kids have also had a few nightmares, probably a combination of the big changes, heat, newness of everything. They are getting more settled now – the past few nights they have all slept well.
We have been researching options for schooling next year (new school year starts the end of January). There is a private Waldorf school (aka Steiner school) here that we are excited about. It seems to be very nurturing and well established, with teachers very experienced in the Steiner curriculum. Ryland has a slot there if we choose to take it. We are also continuing to research the private international school here. We will see!
In the meantime we have been doing some school at home. It’s interesting how kids are different. Kaelyn loves to spend time coloring. Ryland wouldn’t necessarily seek that out, but if he deems something useful work he is all over it. He has written a letter to Aine (our dog) who is still in quarantine in Sydney. Last week we had to do a big grocery store run. While I worked in the kitchen he spent about 40 minutes making our list. I helped him spell the words and he wrote them down. When we got to the store he found the items on the list and crossed them off as we put them in the cart. He was way into it. It was wonderful!
The kids all miss our dog and cat. Paul and I debated whether or not it was a good idea to import them to Australia. The process was difficult and costly for us, not to mention difficult for the pets. Given how much we all miss the animals we are happy we are doing it. It will be another month before we see them and we can’t wait. The kids and I have done up a little care package to send them which seemed to help. We also have a person hired to take Aine out to the exercise yard within the quarantine twice a week and to give Harmony (our cat) some extra love. She emails video and photos of both animals to us. It’s good to see they are alright. Harmony is still a little grumpy and probably will be until she is settled back with us.
Sunday, 4 December 2011
December 5, 2011......Mail address
Some of you have been asking us for a new address...we can receive LETTER mail through the ConocoPhillips "pouch mail" system, so you only have to mail it to this US address and we will get it. Merry Christmas!
ConocoPhillips
NAME (Paul, Carolyn, Ryland, Kaelyn, OR Johanna Barry)
Darwin Pouch
P.O. Box 4569
Houston, TX
77210
ConocoPhillips
NAME (Paul, Carolyn, Ryland, Kaelyn, OR Johanna Barry)
Darwin Pouch
P.O. Box 4569
Houston, TX
77210
Saturday, 3 December 2011
December 4, 2011....Different - good, dangerous and confusing
You have to expect things to be different so far away from home. And they are. Surprisingly, though, there are more than a few things here I wish I could just infuse back home. Don’t get me wrong…this place has its share of problems/issues too. It’s just some differences are kind of surprising and a nice change. For example, it seems from all our dealings with people of any authority that most everyone here is a PERSON first and foremost. Their primary job is not to figure out how you are trying to pull the wool over their eyes or scam the system. It seems that they are primarily there to help you.
One example...arriving in Sydney. We go out through security and collect our bags. In addition to our 3 little kids and 5 carry-on bags, we now have our 10 large checked-in bags. We go through customs. No issues. Then we get in one of the lines for quarantine. Johanna (our 2 year old) announces that she has to go pee. There is no bathroom in this area. She still doesn't give us a ton of advanced notice so we feel pressured to figure out a solution sooner rather than later. A security guard says, "No problem, I will just escort you two back through customs and security to the bathroom, wait for you, and then escort you back to your family." OK!! THANK YOU!
Another example…customs issues with an incoming package from my sister (which is another story). One phone call to Sydney…guy at the other end takes time to hear my story. He tells me exactly what to do to resolve the issue – where to send my email, what (out of the whole story I told him) is relevant to the people who will get my email. He told me what would happen next. I did as he said. A short time later I get a reply to my message. “Carolyn, Thank for your email. Your goods will be released shortly.” DONE. Amazing. There just seems to be an underlying trust here. And lack of red tape.
When Paul and I went to get our driver’s licences, we expected the worst. When I moved to Alaska from Calgary, it took almost a whole day to get a new licence. I had to wait in line, study for a test, wait in line, take a written test, wait in line again, paperwork, photo, payment, wait for printing. Now we were 2 people, with 3 little kids to keep occupied. We were not optimistic. A little paperwork, a short wait, very quick eye test, payment, photo, DONE. We were all completely done and out of there in probably 40 minutes!!
In my opinion, if anyone should ever have to do a driver’s test it should be people who have to learn to drive on the other side of the road. We are just a hazard out there. Well, I’M a hazard. Case in point…on the way TO the Motor Vehicle Registration I came close to pulling out in front of oncoming traffic. I was distracted. I was looking left to make a RH turn, just like I had done countless times before. My subconscious was fully in charge. I would have pulled out in front of the quickly moving, very close, oncoming traffic on my right had Paul not been in the car and yelled at me. Whew. That would NOT have been good. Thank you so much, Love.
Some other things are just different. And confusing. And sometimes asking other people to rid you of your confusion just confuses them. Fueling up. The car is finally approaching empty and I have to figure out what to put in it. I find a station and pull in beside the building to figure it out.
First I pull out the manual. Not immediately obvious what the answer is. I guess they assume you know what you are doing in that department. Hmmm…I’ll just pull up to the pumps and ask that nice gentleman over there. I pull up, think to first open the cover on the gas cap and look for directions inside. There is a sticker. Great! It says “Ethanol (E10) Fuel Suitable”. I look at my options. They are numerous…Gas, Unleaded, Diesel, PLUS ULP, Premium 98. Hmmm...
OK, back to Plan B. Let’s ask. The nearby gentleman doesn’t know. He thinks I can use Unleaded, not sure about the PLUS ULP. Uh oh. OK, plan D? Let’s go inside and hope that the person behind the counter is a little more knowledgeable. I tell him what is printed on the sticker inside my gas cap cover. He says I can use the PLUS ULP. OK.
When I go back in to pay for the gas I ask him what the difference is between Gas and Unleaded. Gas is a lot cheaper and I am wondering if they still have leaded gas here. It is right in the line with the other pumps. He says, “You mean Unleaded?” I ask again. He says, “You mean Unleaded?” This is starting to sound like my first “Who’s on First?” conversation. I tell him that’s ok…I’ll Google it. I ask Paul. He thinks Gas is actually gas, like propane, not gasoline. Oh! I guess propane doesn’t require a special, separate area here. It might not even require special training to operate.
The theme? I guess they just leave you to it here and if you don’t know what you are doing…well, your story might end up in the next book of Darwin Awards.
December , 2011....Swimming
We now understand why everyone told us we HAVE to have a pool in our yard. It is just HOT and the pool is so so nice. We are in it at least once a day and our little kiddos are growing fins and gills!
A few photos of our little fish...
A few photos of our little fish...
Thursday, 1 December 2011
December 2, 2011....My first tropical dance
It was over almost as soon as it started. And it wasn’t the kind of dance I would have chosen. I was also making little noises. Come to think of it, it was more of a hopping thing than a dancing thing...I guess it really wasn’t a dance at all.
I was picking up our gym bag to load it up with snacks and drinks for the next outing. You know what happened next. There was something crawling between my feet. Initially I couldn’t see what exactly it was. But I knew I didn’t want it between by feet and I definitely didn’t want it crawling up my leg. The kids were at the table, perplexed at what they could see of my little display. Until they came around the corner.
I went to the cupboard under the sink and chose my weapon…Cockroach Killer Spray. This battle was going to require something more than a shoe. There was a reason he had gotten to grow as big as he was. I was fairly sure he had outrun danger before. But he hadn’t yet crossed me. I got a little spray on him but he was still moving out. He sought refuge inside the gym bag. He was a smart little guy. I had to dump out the contents to get him on the run again. SPRAY!!! The spray was just shooting out of the can. He finally started to slow down. Then he stopped. The only thing moving was his twitching antennae. I blew the end of my pistol (err I mean can). Carolyn 3, Cockroaches 0.
December 2, 2011....A couple pictures
Biology lessons abound...ants eating a cockroach.
Metal crocs are ok...
Metal crocs are ok...
Monday, 28 November 2011
November 29, 2011...........Beginning of the Wet
We have had several thunder and lightening storms lately. I use the T&L term, realizing that I really didn't know what a good one was before we moved here. The first significant one was on Thanksgiving night. Torrential rain, lightening shooting different directions from several areas. Even the sky has a life of its own here. After our party at Matt and Nancy's house just down the road, we let the kids stay up a few minutes longer to watch the light show from the car. Well, Johanna fell asleep. But the two older kids were impressed enough to keep their eyes open.
Coming from Alaska, I am not accustomed to the weather changing my plans too much. It's 20 below outside? Just put on more clothes before you head out for your run. Indeed, it is most often fun to be out in the elements. The cold weather did have the potential to alter plans when our kids were little little. But not real often. Most times it just cut the activity short.
This morning, I awoke to a T&L storm that surpassed others we have seen thus far. Thunder rocked the house, lightening closer than before, rain...lots of it. Run outside? No thanks. The rain doesn't bother me. The lightening...yeah. Swim in an outside pool? No thanks. The pool is probably closed anyway (they kick everyone out in T&L storms).
When Paul got home from a Crossfit routine (indoors) I told him that I was probably hooped for working out this morning. He didn't seem convinced until another bomb of thunder rocked the house. "Yeah, you probably shouldn't go running".
The entrance to our townhouse has two doors. The outside one is a screen. No big secret, I thought when we first arrived, they have a screen door in case you want to open the house up and have a breeze go through. We fixed the door open so we didn't have to fuss with it. Then I found a couple cockroaches inside and I figured out that the screen door has a piece of rubber on the bottom to cover that passageway between the door and the floor. Hmmmm....maybe we should use that door afterall. Then this morning, while I watched the rainwater quickly collect outside and threaten to rise above the little tile ledge to the doors, I understood another reason to use the screen door....keeping the rain outside the house.
During the Thanksgiving party, I started to quiz locals on what to do in the case of a cyclone approaching. On the radio the probability of having a cyclone in the next 3 days is part of the weather forecast. I figured it was high time I found out what to do if they actually told me one was coming. Here is what I was told (I have not yet checked with another source)...
When there is a Watch on a cyclone, make sure you have your cyclone kit ready. That should include survival gear and warm clothes because it can get cool if one hits. Don't go running for cover just yet...a Watch can last a week. If the Watch turns into a Warning, you need to pay more attention. There is a website you can track where the storm is and if its likely path is currently where you are. If it is going to hit your area, get to the most secure room in the house, hopefully one on the ground level. If there is a large window in the room, put a mattress up against it. Do NOT get in a room without a window because all the air can get sucked out, leaving you in a vaccuum. If there is a parking garage under your home, don't go to the lowest level because it will probably be flooded.
We have watched a little footage of one of the largest cyclones in Darwin's history. The damage it did initially wasn't that bad. Then there was calm. Everyone had time to get out from where they were hiding and start to talk about their experince when the eye of the storm hit. It flattened almost everything. Our friends Matt and Nancy (Paul worked with them in Alaska for years) live in a house that was one of the few that remained in tact during that storm. It has concrete everything, including walls and roof. If we get a Warning while we are here, that's where we are headed.
Coming from Alaska, I am not accustomed to the weather changing my plans too much. It's 20 below outside? Just put on more clothes before you head out for your run. Indeed, it is most often fun to be out in the elements. The cold weather did have the potential to alter plans when our kids were little little. But not real often. Most times it just cut the activity short.
This morning, I awoke to a T&L storm that surpassed others we have seen thus far. Thunder rocked the house, lightening closer than before, rain...lots of it. Run outside? No thanks. The rain doesn't bother me. The lightening...yeah. Swim in an outside pool? No thanks. The pool is probably closed anyway (they kick everyone out in T&L storms).
When Paul got home from a Crossfit routine (indoors) I told him that I was probably hooped for working out this morning. He didn't seem convinced until another bomb of thunder rocked the house. "Yeah, you probably shouldn't go running".
The entrance to our townhouse has two doors. The outside one is a screen. No big secret, I thought when we first arrived, they have a screen door in case you want to open the house up and have a breeze go through. We fixed the door open so we didn't have to fuss with it. Then I found a couple cockroaches inside and I figured out that the screen door has a piece of rubber on the bottom to cover that passageway between the door and the floor. Hmmmm....maybe we should use that door afterall. Then this morning, while I watched the rainwater quickly collect outside and threaten to rise above the little tile ledge to the doors, I understood another reason to use the screen door....keeping the rain outside the house.
During the Thanksgiving party, I started to quiz locals on what to do in the case of a cyclone approaching. On the radio the probability of having a cyclone in the next 3 days is part of the weather forecast. I figured it was high time I found out what to do if they actually told me one was coming. Here is what I was told (I have not yet checked with another source)...
When there is a Watch on a cyclone, make sure you have your cyclone kit ready. That should include survival gear and warm clothes because it can get cool if one hits. Don't go running for cover just yet...a Watch can last a week. If the Watch turns into a Warning, you need to pay more attention. There is a website you can track where the storm is and if its likely path is currently where you are. If it is going to hit your area, get to the most secure room in the house, hopefully one on the ground level. If there is a large window in the room, put a mattress up against it. Do NOT get in a room without a window because all the air can get sucked out, leaving you in a vaccuum. If there is a parking garage under your home, don't go to the lowest level because it will probably be flooded.
We have watched a little footage of one of the largest cyclones in Darwin's history. The damage it did initially wasn't that bad. Then there was calm. Everyone had time to get out from where they were hiding and start to talk about their experince when the eye of the storm hit. It flattened almost everything. Our friends Matt and Nancy (Paul worked with them in Alaska for years) live in a house that was one of the few that remained in tact during that storm. It has concrete everything, including walls and roof. If we get a Warning while we are here, that's where we are headed.
November 29, 2011...........Darwin Wildife
This place is alive. More than any other place I’ve been. There are creatures everywhere. I’ve never felt so apart of nature…just another living, breathing part of things. They so outnumber us that it is tough to feel like we have a greater right to be here. While washing the dishes, I just look out at all the activity – little geckos, lizards, bugs running purposefully everywhere. So busy. So intent on their jobs. I wonder what kind of coffee they drink?
Some creatures I prefer to greet after they are done breathing, though…like the cockroach I found at the bottom of the washing machine after moving all the clothes to the dryer. The poor guy didn’t survive the extra long wash cycle. When I dug it out I had to show the kids. We counted the legs, looked at the hard shell, turned him over to see his belly. Kaelyn was the only one (including me) with guts enough to touch it. Tough little girl. She amazes me all the time.
And then there are some smaller creatures, like the itty bitty ants. I am constantly trying to prevent an infiltration. Paul brushed his teeth a couple days ago and didn’t run much water in the sink after he spit. A couple hours later I went into the bathroom and there was a distinct trail of ants from the window, down the tile, and across the sink. There were hundreds of them having a party in the bowl. I could tell exactly where the excess toothpaste and saliva ended up. One day, after an afternoon treat of popcorn, the kids found a stampede of ants from a patio door to a morsel of popcorn that had escaped the kid’s mouths. Hmmmm…keeping the floor really clean with 3 little kids is going to be challenge. I think I understand why no one has carpet.
Our first night here, we were awakened by the sound of something, make that at least 2 somethings, running around on the roof above our heads. The roof is metal so it was quite noisy. Next night…same thing. Interesting. Like having another kid. Or two. A couple nights later we heard something crash – like something fell off the roof, tumbled down metal and thumped on the ground. We knew it couldn’t have been the kids, but our sleepy minds were initially quite alarmed anyway. Paul looked outside and saw something as big as a cat running across the top of the fence. It was too dark to see details.
Every night we are visited by these nocturnal animals. It doesn’t awake me in a panic anymore. I just roll over and hope they don’t play too much up there. We have been trying to get a good look at them, though, and last night they graced us with their presence before we went to sleep.
The kids saw it first. On top of the fence outside. We were trying hard to get a good look (from INSIDE the house) without scaring it away. We all ended up on the deck upstairs, just outside the door, looking down on the little guy on the fence. Then Paul heard the sound of something moving on metal close to our heads. There was another one very close, watching us from the metal awning above the window next to us. We quickly got the kids inside, not knowing how friendly these creatures are. We tried to get some footage but it was difficult in the dark and without my digital SLR (still going through quarantine). The little guy wasn’t easily scared and tried his best to pose while we struggled with a video camera and a point-and-shoot. We got a good look at him and Ryland ran to get his largest Australian animal book. “I know what he is, Mom!” He quickly found the animal…Brushtail possum. Our nighttime visitors have been identified.
Saturday, 26 November 2011
November 27, 2011.......Housing, Slowing down, Less stuff
We are enjoying a wonderfully slow Sunday here. We are still getting stuff done, just at a much more relaxed pace. Why did we have to move 1/2 way around the world to figure out how to slow down? Or maybe its more a combination of the heat and the amazing level of exhaustion we had attained by the time we got here. I was asleep by 7 pm last night and slept hard until 6 am.
We are still in temporary housing. We have been searching for a long-term house but haven't found what we are looking for yet. We are starting to get a little antsy, wanting to get settled somewhere. Of course our sea shipment won't be here for another 2 months anyway, so it will take a while before we are all set up. Our temporary housing is just fine - 3 bedrooms, 1 1/2 baths, adequate kitchen, living and dining rooms. It has a washer/dryer, though no dish washer. This latter fact bummed me out at first but I have actually enjoyed washing the dishes. It is almost meditative. I even have found a little comfort in ironing Paul's work clothes...funny how our feeling about something can change.
Paul and I have spent a lot of time thinking about what we want the pace of our lives to be in this new chapter. I have done some reading on how our crazy lives are affecting the well being of our children and it is really quite alarming.
Kids get stressed just like we do and their behavior changes just like ours does. The fast pace and amount of "stuff" we have affects their quality of life just like it does adults. Kids have too many choices in toys and even books - it stresses them to figure out what to play with or read. They do not like clutter. They often don't end up having strong bonds with a toy or two, like we had growing up.
This message was quite a wake-up call for me. I couldn't understand why it seemed the more toys we bought the more dissatisfied we all were. There was more stuff always underfoot, the toy room was always messy and uninviting 10 minutes after I cleaned and organized it. I starting reading and I finally understood I was stressing them with all the options. The kids kept wanting more new toys because that gave them clear direction in what to play with...it was ok to just give the new toy their attention and ignore the others.
Before we left Alaska we gave away about 3 truckloads of toys and books. We threw out lots of broken plastic toys that were a total waste of money and space. We replaced some plastic toys with quality wooden ones. We stopped buying toys every time the kids asked for one, even if it had a wonderful learning application. Too much is too much. The kids didn't even mind that we were giving away all the toys. They enjoyed the new real estate they had to run around. They seemed to appreciate the fewer choices they had when we asked them to pick out books for bedtime reading.
Since we have arrived in Darwin, it has been amazing to see our little ones occupy themselves with very little. All they have to play with is what we brought on the airplane. As I type, Ryland is playing with a little hair clip that he has 'transformed' into a motor vehicle of some sort. It is going through pages of a book, jumping over the pictures, driving down roads. Yesterday, he played a game with the bubbles in the sink after we did the dishes. He made a map of Australia, then one of Alaska, followed by different animals by rearranging the bubbles in the water.
Right now our two little girls are happily playing a game of house. They are using a towel and some shoes for a pillow, a nightshirt for a blanket. They have a couple of their favorite stuffed toys that they are developing a much deeper bond with because there are no others lurking around, competing for their attention. Our kids are happy. They are not even asking for all their other stuff.
When the other stuff arrives (some in 2 weeks, some in 2 months), some of it will be given away to kids here, some of it will be stored until we are ready to store what is currently kicking around. We will rotate the toys so there are always fewer choices and less clutter under foot for us all.
It is overwhelming to start to make changes, trying to figure out what direction feels right for you and your family. Where to start? When to stop? I guess the point is there is no end...it will always be a journey of trying your best, making mistakes and moving forward. In my opinion, the biggest challenge with parenting is not a lack of a guide book, but an abundance of them....wait, am I feeling just like my kids, now?
We are still in temporary housing. We have been searching for a long-term house but haven't found what we are looking for yet. We are starting to get a little antsy, wanting to get settled somewhere. Of course our sea shipment won't be here for another 2 months anyway, so it will take a while before we are all set up. Our temporary housing is just fine - 3 bedrooms, 1 1/2 baths, adequate kitchen, living and dining rooms. It has a washer/dryer, though no dish washer. This latter fact bummed me out at first but I have actually enjoyed washing the dishes. It is almost meditative. I even have found a little comfort in ironing Paul's work clothes...funny how our feeling about something can change.
Paul and I have spent a lot of time thinking about what we want the pace of our lives to be in this new chapter. I have done some reading on how our crazy lives are affecting the well being of our children and it is really quite alarming.
Kids get stressed just like we do and their behavior changes just like ours does. The fast pace and amount of "stuff" we have affects their quality of life just like it does adults. Kids have too many choices in toys and even books - it stresses them to figure out what to play with or read. They do not like clutter. They often don't end up having strong bonds with a toy or two, like we had growing up.
This message was quite a wake-up call for me. I couldn't understand why it seemed the more toys we bought the more dissatisfied we all were. There was more stuff always underfoot, the toy room was always messy and uninviting 10 minutes after I cleaned and organized it. I starting reading and I finally understood I was stressing them with all the options. The kids kept wanting more new toys because that gave them clear direction in what to play with...it was ok to just give the new toy their attention and ignore the others.
Before we left Alaska we gave away about 3 truckloads of toys and books. We threw out lots of broken plastic toys that were a total waste of money and space. We replaced some plastic toys with quality wooden ones. We stopped buying toys every time the kids asked for one, even if it had a wonderful learning application. Too much is too much. The kids didn't even mind that we were giving away all the toys. They enjoyed the new real estate they had to run around. They seemed to appreciate the fewer choices they had when we asked them to pick out books for bedtime reading.
Since we have arrived in Darwin, it has been amazing to see our little ones occupy themselves with very little. All they have to play with is what we brought on the airplane. As I type, Ryland is playing with a little hair clip that he has 'transformed' into a motor vehicle of some sort. It is going through pages of a book, jumping over the pictures, driving down roads. Yesterday, he played a game with the bubbles in the sink after we did the dishes. He made a map of Australia, then one of Alaska, followed by different animals by rearranging the bubbles in the water.
Right now our two little girls are happily playing a game of house. They are using a towel and some shoes for a pillow, a nightshirt for a blanket. They have a couple of their favorite stuffed toys that they are developing a much deeper bond with because there are no others lurking around, competing for their attention. Our kids are happy. They are not even asking for all their other stuff.
When the other stuff arrives (some in 2 weeks, some in 2 months), some of it will be given away to kids here, some of it will be stored until we are ready to store what is currently kicking around. We will rotate the toys so there are always fewer choices and less clutter under foot for us all.
It is overwhelming to start to make changes, trying to figure out what direction feels right for you and your family. Where to start? When to stop? I guess the point is there is no end...it will always be a journey of trying your best, making mistakes and moving forward. In my opinion, the biggest challenge with parenting is not a lack of a guide book, but an abundance of them....wait, am I feeling just like my kids, now?
Friday, 25 November 2011
November 26, 2011......Hi All - From Carolyn's other half. . . .
Hi All -
We have been in Darwin about 10 days. I'm getting use to the time zone change, but it is going to take a while to get use to the heat and humidity. After getting constant updates on the recent temps back home, I wouldn't dare complain.
For the longest time, I considered myself too "old school" to get onto FaceBook. FaceBook was for that generation that consumes those energy drinks instead of black coffee. To further explain where I'm coming from, as I finished a run yesterday and was getting back to the apartment, there were two big white parrots sitting in the tree, I thought that they looked just like Fred on Beretta! Now if you understand that, you understand why I didn't think FasceBook was for me. However, with the move it seemed like an easy way to stay in touch with a lot of people. The truth be told, I have enjoyed your posts and messages. It has been great to hear from everyone.
Things got pretty crazy towards the end before we left. When I left the Slope, contrary to popular belief, I did intend to come back for one more hitch. However, after seeing how much needed to be done at home before we left, the smart choice (not a path I'm accustomed to taking) was to get it taken care of. My decision was finalized after hearing stories from another recent expat about his wife having to come back to the States for medical treatment for issues related to the stress of their move. Consequently, I didn't get to talk to a lot of you before I left like I wanted to.
I love Alaska and my family, friends, and the lifestyle there. After 18 years on the Slope, I thought a change would be good. Because of several factors, things just sort of fell into place when the Darwin work came up. However, there were still mixed emotions in leaving. I enjoyed my job and the people I worked with are incredible. They are some of the best at what they do, and more importantly they know how to have fun doing it. Thanks for the friendships, laughs, and good times. I look forward to working and laughing with you again.
My Dad is now 78 and has lived in Alaska for 76 of those years. He said that the old timers (not realizing he is one of "them" now) never use to say "good-bye". Times were tough back then and "good-bye" was too final. So this isn't good-bye, but take care of yourselves until we get to see each other again and enjoy a beer, a few laughs, and swap stories (they don't all have to be true).
Thanksgiving isn't a real big deal over here. The idea of a few pilgrims washing up on a beach on the east coast of North America just doesn't carry a lot of significance to them here. However, it was still an opportunity to reflect on all that I have to be thankful for. My health, a beautiful loving wife, healthy active kids, family, and so many incredible people in my life that I consider friends. I hope that you all had a great day yesterday with friends and co-workers on the Slope or with friends and family at home.
Keep the messages and posts coming. It is great to hear from you and about your lives. We always enjoy hearing about home and the tempertures or the latest hunt or whatever. I want you to know that we miss you all and look forward to seeing you again. Take care, Paul
We have been in Darwin about 10 days. I'm getting use to the time zone change, but it is going to take a while to get use to the heat and humidity. After getting constant updates on the recent temps back home, I wouldn't dare complain.
For the longest time, I considered myself too "old school" to get onto FaceBook. FaceBook was for that generation that consumes those energy drinks instead of black coffee. To further explain where I'm coming from, as I finished a run yesterday and was getting back to the apartment, there were two big white parrots sitting in the tree, I thought that they looked just like Fred on Beretta! Now if you understand that, you understand why I didn't think FasceBook was for me. However, with the move it seemed like an easy way to stay in touch with a lot of people. The truth be told, I have enjoyed your posts and messages. It has been great to hear from everyone.
Things got pretty crazy towards the end before we left. When I left the Slope, contrary to popular belief, I did intend to come back for one more hitch. However, after seeing how much needed to be done at home before we left, the smart choice (not a path I'm accustomed to taking) was to get it taken care of. My decision was finalized after hearing stories from another recent expat about his wife having to come back to the States for medical treatment for issues related to the stress of their move. Consequently, I didn't get to talk to a lot of you before I left like I wanted to.
I love Alaska and my family, friends, and the lifestyle there. After 18 years on the Slope, I thought a change would be good. Because of several factors, things just sort of fell into place when the Darwin work came up. However, there were still mixed emotions in leaving. I enjoyed my job and the people I worked with are incredible. They are some of the best at what they do, and more importantly they know how to have fun doing it. Thanks for the friendships, laughs, and good times. I look forward to working and laughing with you again.
My Dad is now 78 and has lived in Alaska for 76 of those years. He said that the old timers (not realizing he is one of "them" now) never use to say "good-bye". Times were tough back then and "good-bye" was too final. So this isn't good-bye, but take care of yourselves until we get to see each other again and enjoy a beer, a few laughs, and swap stories (they don't all have to be true).
Thanksgiving isn't a real big deal over here. The idea of a few pilgrims washing up on a beach on the east coast of North America just doesn't carry a lot of significance to them here. However, it was still an opportunity to reflect on all that I have to be thankful for. My health, a beautiful loving wife, healthy active kids, family, and so many incredible people in my life that I consider friends. I hope that you all had a great day yesterday with friends and co-workers on the Slope or with friends and family at home.
Keep the messages and posts coming. It is great to hear from you and about your lives. We always enjoy hearing about home and the tempertures or the latest hunt or whatever. I want you to know that we miss you all and look forward to seeing you again. Take care, Paul
Thursday, 24 November 2011
November 25, 2011.......Paul's work
After today Paul will have completed his first week of work. Since he hasn't had the time to sit and Blog, like someone else we all know, I thought I would update you on how I hear it.
First off, Paul has had a cold all week. He started feeling better yesterday and looks much better this morning. The cold put a damper on his energy level and eagerness to interact with everyone earlier in the week.
He seems to enjoy the people he is working with - they are from all over the globe, which he really finds intriguing. One guy is from Pakistan and Paul's response when he told him was "That is so cool!". The guy was taken off guard..."I don't get that response very often." Paul told him about his travels there and how much he enjoyed and appreciated the people he met.
It is tough to start a job with everything so different...different processes, procedures, specifications, standards, rules, people. I think he will be on a steep learning curve for awhile. I am certain he is up for the task and so are his superiors. They have asked him to step up to a supervisory role when he feels like he has his feet on the ground. I am very proud of him.
First off, Paul has had a cold all week. He started feeling better yesterday and looks much better this morning. The cold put a damper on his energy level and eagerness to interact with everyone earlier in the week.
He seems to enjoy the people he is working with - they are from all over the globe, which he really finds intriguing. One guy is from Pakistan and Paul's response when he told him was "That is so cool!". The guy was taken off guard..."I don't get that response very often." Paul told him about his travels there and how much he enjoyed and appreciated the people he met.
It is tough to start a job with everything so different...different processes, procedures, specifications, standards, rules, people. I think he will be on a steep learning curve for awhile. I am certain he is up for the task and so are his superiors. They have asked him to step up to a supervisory role when he feels like he has his feet on the ground. I am very proud of him.
HOW does the chicken cross the road?
Crossing the road is a little tricky...even while running. From which direction are the vehicles going to come? Its amazing how accustomed we get to looking a certain direction. Here you have to look RIGHT then LEFT, opposite of course to North America. Even when you finally figure it out, it is very tough not to also look in the direction to which you are accustomed. Not wanting to look like an immigrant just off the boats, I am trying to limit my glances to the correct direction. Just before I turn my subconscious is screaming..."Look the other way!!!" I am have been trying to quiet it....but then got to wondering how many new people have arrived in Darwin lately...maybe at least 1/2 of them used to driving on the other side of the road....OK, maybe I'll give my subconscious that one.
Just swimming in the rain...
The kiddos and I did our daily swim before dinner today. After about 10 minutes it started to rain...the tropical kind of rain that is like standing in your shower. I asked the kids if they wanted to get out and they decided they wanted to stay in!! It was a fun, new experience for them. I just love their sense of adventure. We just took a little break from the back gliding part of the swim lesson until it wasn't raining quite so hard...
Wednesday, 23 November 2011
Unfamiliar becomes familiar; A "lizard" walking on 2 legs
The unfamiliar is becoming more familiar. The stress of all the "new" is decreasing. The apprehension of driving has also decreased. My subconscious is starting to become useful again. But it still thinks it is smarter than it is. Got the windshield wipers going already today. Its before noon. Its not raining.
Also starting to figure out the roads, rules. The craziness of all the round-a-bouts seems a little more sane. Starting to figure out the grocery store too. Darwin is slowly and quickly becoming "home". Of course nothing will ever replace Alaska. That will always be HOME.
It really is amazing how quickly we can adapt. Still not acclimatized to the heat, though. The kids and I went out exploring in the car yesterday for a little while. We stopped at a beach to have a quick look...it was the heat of the day and it was scorching. We were out probably 3 minutes and it was almost unbearable.
This morning it has been pleaseantly "cool". In Darwin that means somewhat overcast, a light breeze and only 30 C (86 F) and humid. The kids and I went to a large play area that is shaded. It was great for 20 minutes, then everyone needed to get back to the car, cool down and rehydrate. It will be low 30's today (90 F) with a UV index of 13 (extreme).
Walking Lizard
Yesterday, while the kids and I were driving around, we saw lots of wildlife. There are so many different types of birds here...it might take longer than 3 years to get them all straight! Of course we had to stop by one field of large birds so Ryland and I could take a run at them to see if they were the flying type. I know...not very nice. But I have to admit (not to Ryland, though!) that it was fun. We then drove by a field of horses...it was nice to also see something we are used to. We ARE on the same planet! On down to a boat launch to see if we could see any crocs...too hot for them too. On our way back we saw this 'lizard', about the size of small cat, crossing the road in front of us. He was moving out...on TWO legs. His front two legs appeared to be tucked behind his back. He hit the grassy area on the side of the road and kept on going, kind of hopping back and forth from one hind leg to another because the grass hadn't been cut in probably a month. I swear I hadn't been drinking anything other than water up to this point in the day. And Ryland also saw it, so if there was some hallucinating going on we were doing it together.
More later from planet "Top End'.
Also starting to figure out the roads, rules. The craziness of all the round-a-bouts seems a little more sane. Starting to figure out the grocery store too. Darwin is slowly and quickly becoming "home". Of course nothing will ever replace Alaska. That will always be HOME.
It really is amazing how quickly we can adapt. Still not acclimatized to the heat, though. The kids and I went out exploring in the car yesterday for a little while. We stopped at a beach to have a quick look...it was the heat of the day and it was scorching. We were out probably 3 minutes and it was almost unbearable.
This morning it has been pleaseantly "cool". In Darwin that means somewhat overcast, a light breeze and only 30 C (86 F) and humid. The kids and I went to a large play area that is shaded. It was great for 20 minutes, then everyone needed to get back to the car, cool down and rehydrate. It will be low 30's today (90 F) with a UV index of 13 (extreme).
Walking Lizard
Yesterday, while the kids and I were driving around, we saw lots of wildlife. There are so many different types of birds here...it might take longer than 3 years to get them all straight! Of course we had to stop by one field of large birds so Ryland and I could take a run at them to see if they were the flying type. I know...not very nice. But I have to admit (not to Ryland, though!) that it was fun. We then drove by a field of horses...it was nice to also see something we are used to. We ARE on the same planet! On down to a boat launch to see if we could see any crocs...too hot for them too. On our way back we saw this 'lizard', about the size of small cat, crossing the road in front of us. He was moving out...on TWO legs. His front two legs appeared to be tucked behind his back. He hit the grassy area on the side of the road and kept on going, kind of hopping back and forth from one hind leg to another because the grass hadn't been cut in probably a month. I swear I hadn't been drinking anything other than water up to this point in the day. And Ryland also saw it, so if there was some hallucinating going on we were doing it together.
More later from planet "Top End'.
Monday, 21 November 2011
November 21, 2011 - Day 1 flying solo, The First Killing, International hide-and-seek, More grocery store
Yesterday was quite a busy one...Paul had his first day of work, the kids and I had our first day flying solo.
Started the day out a little groggy...still having nightmares about packing, missing flights and saying good-bye to pets. I am sure it will subside soon!!
The First Killing
After a dip in the pool the kids and I decided it was time to organize a little. Looks like it may take us awhile to find more permanent housing so we started trying to find places for our stuff. The kids were taking a break from the work and playing outside when I discovered it. I lifted a duffle bag in a corner near the kitchen table and there it was...the infamous cockroach. It just sat there. I just stood there. What to do?? The kids were outside...I could get away with killing one of God's creatures and they could never be the wiser; I could kill it and let them see what it looks like; I could keep it alive, get the kids to help me get it outside unharmed and teach them a lesson about us all being God's creatures. I decided on option 2...I didn't want to keep finding the same cockroach in the house and you have to be careful what you start. I couldn't teach them to not kill cockroaches and then start killing them later. God's creatures can be God's creatures OUTSIDE. If they step into my house and they are bigger than a pea, they have to have an entry ticket. If they are cute, like a gecko, they will get multiple chances.
Soooo, a paper towel on the bottom of a shoe and a swift action did the trick. To its credit or studipity, it never flinched. When the kids came in I showed them the reminants of the bug and it didn't really phase them. Kids are, in general, much better at taking new things in stride.
International Hide-and-Seek
We did a couple Skype calls with my sister Alison and her two kids. The kids really wanted to interact and it was interesting to watch them figure out how. Ryland played a game with Connor where he found pictures of wild animals in one of his books and held them up to the computer camera so Connor could tell him what they were. Connor guessed them all correctly, of course! Then they played hide-and-seek. The kids on one side of the world would hide and then Alison or I would take the computer around the house and help the other kids find them. It was a blast.
It makes me really sad how badly they all miss each other, and how much I miss my sister. It was sure nice to see them on a computer screen at least. There is nothing like distance to make you realize how much people mean to you. If ony we (I) could only figure that out without having to go through the turmoil of the increase in miles.
Solo Trip To The Grocery Store
The driving was ok...still funny having to look LEFT for the rearview mirror, still flipping on the windshield wipers. Another opposite - when you want to turn on the wipers, DOWN is ON.
The grocery store was interesting...with 3 little kids, trying to find equivalent products here. Things like wheat flour I just assume to be universally available. Not so. Almost all the flour here seems to be white. The closest thing I have found to wheat flour is Wholemeal, which has a appearance slightly darker than white - like mixing 1/3 wheat flour with 2/3 white. I even asked a couple other nearby shoppers. One of the people was a nice gal who moved here from Germany 3 years ago. She said she still struggles trying to find some things. When she first arrived it took her awhile to find sparkling water - apparently it is not in the section with the other water. I had trouble finding sugar - I am just accustomed to it being in the baking aisle. But then, when I think about it, any grocery store apart from your usual haunt is always different, isn't it? It just takes awhile to learn.
I did find an even darker brown sugar than we had tasted previously. We just loved the new taste that I just had to try the even darker, 'browner' brown sugar. I think I may have finally met my match...it might just be a little too brown. I didn't think it possible. So much so, I am going to try it again before publishing my final answer.
I haven't found anything with high fructose corn syrup. I am not sure if it really just isn't used here or if they call it all 'sugar'. I sure hope it is the former!!
The shopping carts are different. They can go in all directions - sideways as well as back and forth. The benefit is it is easy to 'pull over' if you are in someone's way. Disdvantage is they are much harder to control, especially making a turn. Ryland was driving yesterday and got me in the achilles tendon. Ouch!
Freezer bags are not ziplocked. They have ziplock sandwich bags, but the freezer kind are twist-tie.
Quick checkout, HOT walk to the car with 3 tired kids and a cart that didn't want to go where I was going, uneventful drive home and we were ready to start dinner. All-in-all a successful day in the Top End (what Australians call Darwin area) of Down Under.
Started the day out a little groggy...still having nightmares about packing, missing flights and saying good-bye to pets. I am sure it will subside soon!!
The First Killing
After a dip in the pool the kids and I decided it was time to organize a little. Looks like it may take us awhile to find more permanent housing so we started trying to find places for our stuff. The kids were taking a break from the work and playing outside when I discovered it. I lifted a duffle bag in a corner near the kitchen table and there it was...the infamous cockroach. It just sat there. I just stood there. What to do?? The kids were outside...I could get away with killing one of God's creatures and they could never be the wiser; I could kill it and let them see what it looks like; I could keep it alive, get the kids to help me get it outside unharmed and teach them a lesson about us all being God's creatures. I decided on option 2...I didn't want to keep finding the same cockroach in the house and you have to be careful what you start. I couldn't teach them to not kill cockroaches and then start killing them later. God's creatures can be God's creatures OUTSIDE. If they step into my house and they are bigger than a pea, they have to have an entry ticket. If they are cute, like a gecko, they will get multiple chances.
Soooo, a paper towel on the bottom of a shoe and a swift action did the trick. To its credit or studipity, it never flinched. When the kids came in I showed them the reminants of the bug and it didn't really phase them. Kids are, in general, much better at taking new things in stride.
International Hide-and-Seek
We did a couple Skype calls with my sister Alison and her two kids. The kids really wanted to interact and it was interesting to watch them figure out how. Ryland played a game with Connor where he found pictures of wild animals in one of his books and held them up to the computer camera so Connor could tell him what they were. Connor guessed them all correctly, of course! Then they played hide-and-seek. The kids on one side of the world would hide and then Alison or I would take the computer around the house and help the other kids find them. It was a blast.
It makes me really sad how badly they all miss each other, and how much I miss my sister. It was sure nice to see them on a computer screen at least. There is nothing like distance to make you realize how much people mean to you. If ony we (I) could only figure that out without having to go through the turmoil of the increase in miles.
Solo Trip To The Grocery Store
The driving was ok...still funny having to look LEFT for the rearview mirror, still flipping on the windshield wipers. Another opposite - when you want to turn on the wipers, DOWN is ON.
The grocery store was interesting...with 3 little kids, trying to find equivalent products here. Things like wheat flour I just assume to be universally available. Not so. Almost all the flour here seems to be white. The closest thing I have found to wheat flour is Wholemeal, which has a appearance slightly darker than white - like mixing 1/3 wheat flour with 2/3 white. I even asked a couple other nearby shoppers. One of the people was a nice gal who moved here from Germany 3 years ago. She said she still struggles trying to find some things. When she first arrived it took her awhile to find sparkling water - apparently it is not in the section with the other water. I had trouble finding sugar - I am just accustomed to it being in the baking aisle. But then, when I think about it, any grocery store apart from your usual haunt is always different, isn't it? It just takes awhile to learn.
I did find an even darker brown sugar than we had tasted previously. We just loved the new taste that I just had to try the even darker, 'browner' brown sugar. I think I may have finally met my match...it might just be a little too brown. I didn't think it possible. So much so, I am going to try it again before publishing my final answer.
I haven't found anything with high fructose corn syrup. I am not sure if it really just isn't used here or if they call it all 'sugar'. I sure hope it is the former!!
The shopping carts are different. They can go in all directions - sideways as well as back and forth. The benefit is it is easy to 'pull over' if you are in someone's way. Disdvantage is they are much harder to control, especially making a turn. Ryland was driving yesterday and got me in the achilles tendon. Ouch!
Freezer bags are not ziplocked. They have ziplock sandwich bags, but the freezer kind are twist-tie.
Quick checkout, HOT walk to the car with 3 tired kids and a cart that didn't want to go where I was going, uneventful drive home and we were ready to start dinner. All-in-all a successful day in the Top End (what Australians call Darwin area) of Down Under.
Sunday, 20 November 2011
Pet Gecko??
Last night we got a show as we were performing the nightly ritual of brushing teeth. A gecko or some other sort small lizard shot across the bathroom window (on the outside) and snatched up a bug. It was a rather large bug in relation to the size of the little lizard. The bug struggled to get free so the lizard proceeded to whack it against the window until it quit. We proceeded to read books and when we went back to check on the lizard's progress, he was there on the winow, without the bug. His belly didn't seem to be large enough to have eaten the whole bug so we are not sure where the insect ended up.
The sillouette of the little lizard was quite cute, with 3 little bulb-shaped "toes" on each leg. Johanna so wanted to pet him, as she had done in Hawaii last winter. Aunt Shelshel (Paul's sister Michelle) was an expert gecko-catcher and would let the kids touch them while they sought protection from her cupped hands. If we see our little guy again tonight we shall have to give him a name.
The sillouette of the little lizard was quite cute, with 3 little bulb-shaped "toes" on each leg. Johanna so wanted to pet him, as she had done in Hawaii last winter. Aunt Shelshel (Paul's sister Michelle) was an expert gecko-catcher and would let the kids touch them while they sought protection from her cupped hands. If we see our little guy again tonight we shall have to give him a name.
Driving Down Under
Greetings from "tomorrow"...
So I finally got in the driver's seat. Interesting, for sure. The biggest battle for me is with my own sub-conscious. It thinks it knows what to do. It has no idea. My concious has to keep telling it to be quiet...its not going to be useful to "us" for quite some time. This is the job of the conscious brain. And I was wrong about driving straight being easy...why you ask? Because I am not accustomed to being that close to the meridian on the right. I want there to be a little more distance, comfort zone, if you will. Problem is, then I am too close to the edge of the road or any cars trying to get around me on the left. Good thing you have to keep LEFT except to pass...a little more comfortable over there.
I haven't set the winshield wipers going to signal a turn TOO many times yet. Just a few. But then it is only the beginning. I had a thought to put a sock on the lever for the windshield wipers to help alert me of what I am about to do...we are not going to need socks down here anyway...except maybe to protect feet from biting ants (see previous post).
So I finally got in the driver's seat. Interesting, for sure. The biggest battle for me is with my own sub-conscious. It thinks it knows what to do. It has no idea. My concious has to keep telling it to be quiet...its not going to be useful to "us" for quite some time. This is the job of the conscious brain. And I was wrong about driving straight being easy...why you ask? Because I am not accustomed to being that close to the meridian on the right. I want there to be a little more distance, comfort zone, if you will. Problem is, then I am too close to the edge of the road or any cars trying to get around me on the left. Good thing you have to keep LEFT except to pass...a little more comfortable over there.
I haven't set the winshield wipers going to signal a turn TOO many times yet. Just a few. But then it is only the beginning. I had a thought to put a sock on the lever for the windshield wipers to help alert me of what I am about to do...we are not going to need socks down here anyway...except maybe to protect feet from biting ants (see previous post).
Biting Ants???
After dinner tonight we drove the kids to this big, beautiful play area down the road. It is near a man-made lake and very close to the ocean and one of the coastal trails. When we got out of the car the kids went to the grassy area next to the parking lot. Ryland quickly came back near the car, sat down and started taking off his sandals. He said something was biting his feet. The girls had the same thing happening to them. All the kids up on the car, sandals off, wiping red ants off their feet. No major damage. Just a wake up call. They are called fire ants (because the bite feels like something burning you). They are also known as ginger ants (because of their color?). Anyway, luckily the kids didn't get many on them and got very few bites.
Paul and I were trying to find a property with a grassy area for the kids to play on. Right now concrete blocks are looking much safer...
Love Us
Paul and I were trying to find a property with a grassy area for the kids to play on. Right now concrete blocks are looking much safer...
Love Us
November 20, 2011
Driving around Darwin area today...trying to figure out where places are in relation to each other. How far schools, pools, lakes, etc. are from different communities. Slowly figuring out where we would like to live. After 2 days of looking at rental houses, it is nice to have a slower day.
Before we got back to the house we were feeling pretty done, ready to get out of the car. Just then our rental car started beeping, like it does when the fuel is low or your seatbelt is not on. Paul was trying to figure out what was wrong with the car. Then he noticed that the warning signal we were hearing was accompanied by a message on the odometer screen..."Rest Reminder" along with a picture of a big tree and picnic table. I kid you not. The car was reminding us that it was time to stop for a break.
The midday heat is quite something. The sun is pretty intense. We've been pretty good about staying out of the sun. We messed up yesterday...the kids were all asleep in the car so we stopped by a used car dealership to start our search. Paul and I were out for maybe 10 - 15 minutes. We noticed when we got home we both had a little sunburn.
We haven't had much rain since we arrived. I guess this is still considered the "build up", when the humidity is high but it doesn't rain much. It is supposed to be a relief when it starts raining a bunch. I'm glad we got here before the worst of the rain...much easier to get used to the whole driving thing on dry roads.
I get the feeling that not many people spend hours baking cookies or bread here. Many of the houses we have seen have smaller ovens than our microwave was in Alaska. I finally asked a realestate agent yesterday...what is up with these big fancy houses and the small ovens? He explained that not many people want the heat from baking to be INSIDE the house. Most people do their cooking on barbies (aka BBQs) outside. Keep the heat out there. Hmmmm, that will take some figuring out. Is there anyway to hook up an additional stove/oven out on the deck???
Tough to decide on housing...big fancy house with small yard or older house with bigger yard; closer to Paul's work or closer to schools; closer to green space or closer to trail system. One house we saw yesterday was gorgeous...lots of space inside, pool outside, small patch of green grass for the kids that was separate from the pool. Nice kitchen, gas cooking. It also had big beautiful windows...one side overlooked the ocean. The other side with floor-to-vaulted-ceiling windows?? A view straight into an apartment building. Hmmmm.
One thing I heard was vastly different in Darwin was the shopping. The kids and I spent a few minutes in a shopping center a couple days ago and there seemed to be LOTS of shops in there. Of course, in general, I hate shopping so I am not the best to judge. I guess the jury is still out on that one.
They use metric here, like in Canada. Funny how quickly you (or at least I) lose a relative sense of what different quantities mean. How much is 500g of sandwich meat? How many km is a 6 mile run? How many kilometers does a vehicle have on it when it has 100,000 miles? The only easy one to remember is the 0 C freezing point. I don't think I will get much use out of that one here.
Sending lots of love,
The Barry's
Before we got back to the house we were feeling pretty done, ready to get out of the car. Just then our rental car started beeping, like it does when the fuel is low or your seatbelt is not on. Paul was trying to figure out what was wrong with the car. Then he noticed that the warning signal we were hearing was accompanied by a message on the odometer screen..."Rest Reminder" along with a picture of a big tree and picnic table. I kid you not. The car was reminding us that it was time to stop for a break.
The midday heat is quite something. The sun is pretty intense. We've been pretty good about staying out of the sun. We messed up yesterday...the kids were all asleep in the car so we stopped by a used car dealership to start our search. Paul and I were out for maybe 10 - 15 minutes. We noticed when we got home we both had a little sunburn.
We haven't had much rain since we arrived. I guess this is still considered the "build up", when the humidity is high but it doesn't rain much. It is supposed to be a relief when it starts raining a bunch. I'm glad we got here before the worst of the rain...much easier to get used to the whole driving thing on dry roads.
I get the feeling that not many people spend hours baking cookies or bread here. Many of the houses we have seen have smaller ovens than our microwave was in Alaska. I finally asked a realestate agent yesterday...what is up with these big fancy houses and the small ovens? He explained that not many people want the heat from baking to be INSIDE the house. Most people do their cooking on barbies (aka BBQs) outside. Keep the heat out there. Hmmmm, that will take some figuring out. Is there anyway to hook up an additional stove/oven out on the deck???
Tough to decide on housing...big fancy house with small yard or older house with bigger yard; closer to Paul's work or closer to schools; closer to green space or closer to trail system. One house we saw yesterday was gorgeous...lots of space inside, pool outside, small patch of green grass for the kids that was separate from the pool. Nice kitchen, gas cooking. It also had big beautiful windows...one side overlooked the ocean. The other side with floor-to-vaulted-ceiling windows?? A view straight into an apartment building. Hmmmm.
One thing I heard was vastly different in Darwin was the shopping. The kids and I spent a few minutes in a shopping center a couple days ago and there seemed to be LOTS of shops in there. Of course, in general, I hate shopping so I am not the best to judge. I guess the jury is still out on that one.
They use metric here, like in Canada. Funny how quickly you (or at least I) lose a relative sense of what different quantities mean. How much is 500g of sandwich meat? How many km is a 6 mile run? How many kilometers does a vehicle have on it when it has 100,000 miles? The only easy one to remember is the 0 C freezing point. I don't think I will get much use out of that one here.
Sending lots of love,
The Barry's
Saturday, 19 November 2011
First Impressions of Darwin, Australia
Ryland...
We cannot wait to go to the Croc park where you can hold baby crocodiles.
Its pretty good so far...we get to climb lots of trees, go swimming every day.
Kaelyn...
It is hot here. It is nighttime in Alaska.
Johanna...
They have flies and bugs here.
Carolyn...
Hawaii with a twist and no big resorts. And crocodiles. And poisionous box jellyfish.
Its amazing how many things are opposite. If you walk in a room here and flip a light switch UP you will turn OFF the light. Of course the driving is on the opposite side of the road. The steering wheel is on the opposite side of the car. And the lever for the signal light is on the right; lever for the wipers is on the left. So Paul and I are having a competition...at the end of a day running around...how many times did I approach the car on the driver's side instead of the passenger side...and how many times did he put on the wipers when trying to signal a turn.
The driving requires a lot of concentration. I haven't even tried it yet...it takes both Paul and I to keep from having an accident. Driving straight is easy of course, provided you are not under the influence. The problem comes when you go to make a turn. You have to look the opposite way for traffic and have to make sure you don't end up on the wrong side of the road you are turning on. We've had a few near misses, especially when the kids are making a fuss.
Even running on the trail system requires a little more concentration...I've already confused several people by running on the wrong side.
Escalators are opposite too, of course...you will have trouble getting anywhere if you attempt to jump on the one on the right.
Other observations...a beautiful mix of people, from all sorts of backgrounds. In the bank yesterday, there were even people who walked in barefoot. They might be on to something. Who need sandals in such heat, anyway?
There are beautiful parks, play areas, lots of green space. And there is HEAT. My little run this morning was a little late - 7 am. On the way back the previously shaded trail was in full sun. My brain had to do some convincing to keep my out-of-shape legs moving toward home.
Johanna wasn't sure of all the little teeny ants here. Took her awhile to not want to wear sandals everywhere she went. We started a "stomp on the ants" game, which helped a lot.
The grocery store is different in some ways...prices are quite high - probably double Alaska prices. And everything is sold in small quantities (probably because no one could afford large containers of anything!). Grocery bags are sold and are intended to be reused. Of course you can bring other bags to use and the clerk will pack your groceries in your bags. Nice!!
Of course, most everything tastes a little different. We are really enjoying the brown sugar over here...could it be possible that brown sugar could get even better?!?!? Yes, it is indeed more "brown" tasting over here. Kids have a new love of cooked oatmeal.
People seem to be friendly. While running on the trails, though, I seem to have to be the first person to say "Hello" or "Good morning". That could be typical, or it could be just because I look like I am ready to pass out and they are not interested in having to interupt their nice peaceful morning exercise to perform CPR.
So, all in all, we are happy with our first impressions. Kids are still singing, running around. We are heading back out to the pool for the second time today. Kids have improved greatly even since we arrived a few days ago. They will be fish in a few months.
Love to you all. Wish you were here to enjoy this with us.
We cannot wait to go to the Croc park where you can hold baby crocodiles.
Its pretty good so far...we get to climb lots of trees, go swimming every day.
Kaelyn...
It is hot here. It is nighttime in Alaska.
Johanna...
They have flies and bugs here.
Carolyn...
Hawaii with a twist and no big resorts. And crocodiles. And poisionous box jellyfish.
Its amazing how many things are opposite. If you walk in a room here and flip a light switch UP you will turn OFF the light. Of course the driving is on the opposite side of the road. The steering wheel is on the opposite side of the car. And the lever for the signal light is on the right; lever for the wipers is on the left. So Paul and I are having a competition...at the end of a day running around...how many times did I approach the car on the driver's side instead of the passenger side...and how many times did he put on the wipers when trying to signal a turn.
The driving requires a lot of concentration. I haven't even tried it yet...it takes both Paul and I to keep from having an accident. Driving straight is easy of course, provided you are not under the influence. The problem comes when you go to make a turn. You have to look the opposite way for traffic and have to make sure you don't end up on the wrong side of the road you are turning on. We've had a few near misses, especially when the kids are making a fuss.
Even running on the trail system requires a little more concentration...I've already confused several people by running on the wrong side.
Escalators are opposite too, of course...you will have trouble getting anywhere if you attempt to jump on the one on the right.
Other observations...a beautiful mix of people, from all sorts of backgrounds. In the bank yesterday, there were even people who walked in barefoot. They might be on to something. Who need sandals in such heat, anyway?
There are beautiful parks, play areas, lots of green space. And there is HEAT. My little run this morning was a little late - 7 am. On the way back the previously shaded trail was in full sun. My brain had to do some convincing to keep my out-of-shape legs moving toward home.
Johanna wasn't sure of all the little teeny ants here. Took her awhile to not want to wear sandals everywhere she went. We started a "stomp on the ants" game, which helped a lot.
The grocery store is different in some ways...prices are quite high - probably double Alaska prices. And everything is sold in small quantities (probably because no one could afford large containers of anything!). Grocery bags are sold and are intended to be reused. Of course you can bring other bags to use and the clerk will pack your groceries in your bags. Nice!!
Of course, most everything tastes a little different. We are really enjoying the brown sugar over here...could it be possible that brown sugar could get even better?!?!? Yes, it is indeed more "brown" tasting over here. Kids have a new love of cooked oatmeal.
People seem to be friendly. While running on the trails, though, I seem to have to be the first person to say "Hello" or "Good morning". That could be typical, or it could be just because I look like I am ready to pass out and they are not interested in having to interupt their nice peaceful morning exercise to perform CPR.
So, all in all, we are happy with our first impressions. Kids are still singing, running around. We are heading back out to the pool for the second time today. Kids have improved greatly even since we arrived a few days ago. They will be fish in a few months.
Love to you all. Wish you were here to enjoy this with us.
Friday, 18 November 2011
En Route to Australia
Here are my posts from Facebook while we were enroute to Australia...
November 14, 2011
November 14, 2011
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